i havnt been on in a long time and it wont let me log into the server so im guessing i need rights to beable to log on so can i please have rights.

I'm pretty sure you don't need rights to enter the server, so either you're banned, or there's something wrong your end.

What does it say when you try to enter the server because i dont remember you getting banned

Nope, you are not banned, so what's all the fuss about?